Hi Shannon, I know it's hard to ignore these asshole people, but ignore them. Don't acknowledge them. Then they have no power over you. Your daughter is a sweetie and you must be strong for her. People hide behind their computers and they think they are cool by attacking others. I read up on lipedema to get a better understanding, as I have seen several women that are much larger than you are. I did not know what they were suffering with, but I knew it wasn't because they ate after hours! I know it's hard to do but think positive thoughts. Try to take care of yourself and take one day at a time. Keep writing! You are admired by many!