I understand that "look". When my husband was pronounced dead in the emergency room, they came in with forms and clipboards, asking who they could call for me. I said my closest friend is over 2,000 miles away. They looked at me like I had 2 heads! I hate stupid, unfeeling questions. I do not have a contact person; they can call my dog, but he has been trained not to answer the phone. I don't have any family left. If I die in my house the state can figure it out. And they can stick their forms and questions where the sun doesn't shine.